Today I went to the memorial service for my friend Christie Clark. Christie was a ballooning friend, who died unexpectedly and too soon. She leaves behind her son Cooper, just at the cusp of manhood. She adored him – it was obvious whenever you saw them together.
As I drove to South Carolina to the service, pictures of Christie kept passing through my mind. They were almost all pictures of laughter. A good way to remember your friends.
There was a good contingent of ballooning friends there, because it is a community that shows up for each other. We’ll be there for Cooper, whose life and support system changed overnight.
On this first day of Love Month, I love community – those people who show up when you need them. When that community is one of friends, it is extra-special.
Love is growing together, through good times and bad. It was comforting to be in the midst of community today – other people who wanted to remember the life of Christie, support Cooper and her ex-husband Roger, and hug each other – while we can.
Christie will remain part of our community, but I wish we could hug her again.
Invest in those things you love. I’m investing in community.
“The greatness of a community is most accurately measured by the compassionate actions of its members.” – Coretta Scott King
I’m sorry about your friend. Sending good wishes.
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Thanks Michelle. I’ve had a funeral a week since I got back from vacation. Today’s another one.
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I mean tomorrow.
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That’s very challenging. I’m sorry.
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