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Author: Kim McKinney

I hate boxes....usually. Sometimes I fit, often I don't. You too? I used to want to fit in, but now I usually don't. I want to be me. Not far out there, but not quite the norm. I believe we should celebrate the unique in ourselves. I love travel, adventure, hot air balloons, live music, and kind, smart, and interesting people. Have been described as quirky and I quite like it. I love writing because it helps clear out my brain! Please subscribe to my blog and follow me on Medium (https://medium.com/@kimmckinney719). And let me know your thoughts. I'll love us to get to know each other better.

On Relaxing….and Keeping the Vacation Going

When I arrived home from a week’s vacation in Hilton Head on Sunday, I unloaded my car and dumped everything … More

Luke 10, Mary and Martha, organization, relaxation, returning from vacation

A Day for My Dad (Who May Not Realize It Is Father’s Day If We Don’t Tell Him)

I always thought Dad was an excellent listener – well, until the day I realized the “Uh-huh, uh-huh, ooooooohhhhhhh” was … More

Dad, father, Father's Day, growing up, parenting

A Night At Victory Junction

In memory of Adam, #45 It’s hard for me to volunteer anywhere on a weeknight.  The work day complete…I am … More

Adam Petty, Kyle Petty, racing industry, Richard Petty, sick kids, Victory Junction, volunteering

Graduating, Growing Up, and Becoming MacGyver

OK, here is what I remember about my high school graduation (North Iredell High School, Class of 1978.  Yeah….long time … More

advice, dance with the one who brung ya, graduation, growing up, Life, MacGyver

Phobias and Fears and Planning the Way Out

There are some disadvantages of reading a lot when you are a child.  My active imagination would create scenarios that … More

conquering fears, fear of bridges, fear of water, fears, phobias, tapping technique, therapy

Falling into Neophilia (or "Yes I Did Go Out of That Airplane at 3500 ft")

I must be honest.  I really didn’t jump out of an airplane (or a “perfectly good airplane” to quote most … More

expectations, fear, first skydive, jump, neophilia, skydiving, Walterboro

Teetering on the Border of Neophilia

It was just a little blurb I noticed in a magazine this week.  “Neophilia [n ‘fil]: noun A love of … More

danger, fear, flying, heights, neophilia, skydiving, thrill-seeking

Friends Forever….or Maybe Not

I am not a big collector.  I love windup toys and definitely have more of them than the average person.  … More

Friendship, losing friends, picking friends, un-friend

Knowing Me

When I lived in the Raleigh/Cary area a great guy named Tim was my hair stylist.  Tim was really great … More

advice, hair stylist, knowing yourself

The Irony of Harmony

Yes, there is a bit of irony going on in Harmony right now (which, for those of you not from … More

fear, Harmony, KKK, Ku Klux Klan, racism

That Big Special Place Inside My Brain

Once when I was young, I believe it was middle school, I wore my shirt to school inside-out.  A very … More

anterior cingulate cortex, anxiety, brain, self-criticism, value

As I Relayed….

(Note:  Relay for Life is a 24-hour event for the American Cancer Society, that celebrates survivors of cancer, remembers those … More

American Cancer Society, Relay for Life

The Evil Spring (or Moving When I Don’t Feel Like It)

It’s been an especially tough spring for me.  The pollen has seemed to be worse than normal, and we keep … More

lethargy, moving, spring

Meant To Be My Mom

Our relationship has often not been easy.  I think from the time I was 12 until I left for college … More

Mom, mother's day

Live Like We’re Alive

We call it life, which conjures up visions of birth, growth, freshness, and passion.  But it also includes death, sickness, … More

God, Live Like We're Alive, living as we are alive, Nevertheless, Psalm 100, purpose, theology, Westminster Shorter Catechism

"The End" May Be The Start of a Sequel

I remember back when I was in college and Ronald Reagan was elected president the first time.  He wasn’t a … More

Amendment One, discouragement, hope, Ronald Reagan

Remembering Claire

Claire Mangum met my sister Deryn over the phone.  Her family was moving to Statesville and she called about an … More

butterfly, Claire Mangum, colon cancer, colonoscopy, death, friend, Life

A Good Drive and Back Home

Most know I love to travel.  Flying is my preference…..generally because it means I am headed somewhere of some distance, … More

car trip, driving, finding home, home, Kentucky Derby, Louisville, travel

My Thoughts on Amendment 1

I really didn’t want to write on this subject, though have prayerfully considered it for quite a while.   Amendment One … More

Amendment One, law, marriage, NC

My Rock Stars

Was talking to my friend Liz last night about writers…..and my special love for them.  Having been a huge reader … More

Amelia Bedelia, authors, Eudora Welty, James Patterson, Lee Smith, Peggy Parish, Philip Yancey, R.C. Sproul, Taylor Stevens, Tom Perrotta

Some Rambling on Politics

I’m not someone who identifies with any political party.  I registered Republican – back when I was 18 and thought … More

elections, laws, politics, voting

Joy in the Mourning

When I was in my 20s, I was a member of two singles groups in Greensboro.  The first was at … More

death, Friendship, providence, provision, Psalm 30, wedding

It’s Not Just About The Vaginas…

Some friends of mine are putting on a great production of “The Vagina Monologues” this weekend, to raise money for … More

abuse, love, relationships, Vagina Monologues

Commercials That Changed My Life

My friend Allie had to spend part of her birthday cleaning gum off of her brand new car because some … More

commercials

Guilt and Shame – And Other Things That Ruin Our Vision

Guilt and shame.  We all feel them from time to time.  (Or those of us who are not psychopaths.)  I’m … More

criticism, guilt, shame

Is Fat the New 30?

Saw the title of a novel “Fat is the New 30” and it made me laugh.  And then not laugh.  … More

aging, exercise, fat, growing old, weight

So Why Did You Say It?

It’s happened to me two times in two days.   Someone told me they would call at some appointed time, and … More

Friendship, integrity, keeping your word, RSVP, truth

A Game of "I Spy" With Our President

In our world today we seem to sensationalize and glorify the acts of people who have done nothing.  I love … More

Americans, ballooning, Ed Ristaino, hero, I Spy, local politicians, President, Presidential Citizens Medal, reality television, service, skydiving

Half Full or Half Empty?

I’ve never quite figured out whether I am an optimist or a pessimist……is that glass half full or half empty?  … More

optimism, perspective, pessimism

Coming Out of the Tomb

Today is Easter Sunday!  He is risen!  Look and see what is going on around you.  Worshipful church services (full … More

Easter, perspective, resurrection, Weeds

What “He” Said…..

So I had a little run-in this week with someone that calls himself a “street preacher.”   Really, all I said … More

childless, Christian, evangelism, Faith, family, Friendship, Life, opinions, relationships, single, travel, unemployment, work

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