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Hunted by Proud Hunters – Or How Debt Can Kill You

 Day 6 in Proverbs Proverbs 6: 1-9 “My child, suppose you agree to pay the debt of someone, who cannot … More

debt, laziness, making deals, money, pride, Proverbs 6

Drinking From Your Own Well

Day 5 in Proverbs Proverbs 5:15-16 “You should be faithful to your wife, just as you take water from your … More

love languages, marriage, Proverbs 5, relationships, well

Independence Day

Day 4 in Proverbs Proverbs 4: 20-26 “My child, listen carefully to everything I say.  Don’t forget a single word, … More

choice, freedom, independence, lies, truth

Can I See Your Necklace?

Day 3 in Proverbs Proverbs 3: “Let love and loyalty always show like a necklace, and write them in your … More

Friendship, jewelry, love, loyalty, Proverbs 3

The Smooth Talk of a Sinful Woman

Day 2 in Proverbs Proverbs 2: 2-3 “Keep in tune with wisdom and think what it means to have common … More

Bathsheba, common sense, David, manipulation, Proverbs 2, Solomon, wisdom

When Trees Fly

My friends the Klingers just had their annual 4th of July celebration…..held in June, because unfortunately when you set a … More

fireworks, July 4, Proverbs 1, wisdom

But I Want It NOW!

One of my all time favorite childhood books was Charlie and the Chocolate Factory by Roald Dahl.  When the movie … More

Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, dog ownership, encouragement, I want it now, privilege, self centered, Veruca Salt, Willie Wonka, working out

On Relaxing….and Keeping the Vacation Going

When I arrived home from a week’s vacation in Hilton Head on Sunday, I unloaded my car and dumped everything … More

Luke 10, Mary and Martha, organization, relaxation, returning from vacation

A Day for My Dad (Who May Not Realize It Is Father’s Day If We Don’t Tell Him)

I always thought Dad was an excellent listener – well, until the day I realized the “Uh-huh, uh-huh, ooooooohhhhhhh” was … More

Dad, father, Father's Day, growing up, parenting

A Night At Victory Junction

In memory of Adam, #45 It’s hard for me to volunteer anywhere on a weeknight.  The work day complete…I am … More

Adam Petty, Kyle Petty, racing industry, Richard Petty, sick kids, Victory Junction, volunteering

Graduating, Growing Up, and Becoming MacGyver

OK, here is what I remember about my high school graduation (North Iredell High School, Class of 1978.  Yeah….long time … More

advice, dance with the one who brung ya, graduation, growing up, Life, MacGyver

Phobias and Fears and Planning the Way Out

There are some disadvantages of reading a lot when you are a child.  My active imagination would create scenarios that … More

conquering fears, fear of bridges, fear of water, fears, phobias, tapping technique, therapy

Falling into Neophilia (or "Yes I Did Go Out of That Airplane at 3500 ft")

I must be honest.  I really didn’t jump out of an airplane (or a “perfectly good airplane” to quote most … More

expectations, fear, first skydive, jump, neophilia, skydiving, Walterboro

Teetering on the Border of Neophilia

It was just a little blurb I noticed in a magazine this week.  “Neophilia [n ‘fil]: noun A love of … More

danger, fear, flying, heights, neophilia, skydiving, thrill-seeking

Friends Forever….or Maybe Not

I am not a big collector.  I love windup toys and definitely have more of them than the average person.  … More

Friendship, losing friends, picking friends, un-friend

Knowing Me

When I lived in the Raleigh/Cary area a great guy named Tim was my hair stylist.  Tim was really great … More

advice, hair stylist, knowing yourself

The Irony of Harmony

Yes, there is a bit of irony going on in Harmony right now (which, for those of you not from … More

fear, Harmony, KKK, Ku Klux Klan, racism

That Big Special Place Inside My Brain

Once when I was young, I believe it was middle school, I wore my shirt to school inside-out.  A very … More

anterior cingulate cortex, anxiety, brain, self-criticism, value

As I Relayed….

(Note:  Relay for Life is a 24-hour event for the American Cancer Society, that celebrates survivors of cancer, remembers those … More

American Cancer Society, Relay for Life

The Evil Spring (or Moving When I Don’t Feel Like It)

It’s been an especially tough spring for me.  The pollen has seemed to be worse than normal, and we keep … More

lethargy, moving, spring

Meant To Be My Mom

Our relationship has often not been easy.  I think from the time I was 12 until I left for college … More

Mom, mother's day

Live Like We’re Alive

We call it life, which conjures up visions of birth, growth, freshness, and passion.  But it also includes death, sickness, … More

God, Live Like We're Alive, living as we are alive, Nevertheless, Psalm 100, purpose, theology, Westminster Shorter Catechism

"The End" May Be The Start of a Sequel

I remember back when I was in college and Ronald Reagan was elected president the first time.  He wasn’t a … More

Amendment One, discouragement, hope, Ronald Reagan

Remembering Claire

Claire Mangum met my sister Deryn over the phone.  Her family was moving to Statesville and she called about an … More

butterfly, Claire Mangum, colon cancer, colonoscopy, death, friend, Life

A Good Drive and Back Home

Most know I love to travel.  Flying is my preference…..generally because it means I am headed somewhere of some distance, … More

car trip, driving, finding home, home, Kentucky Derby, Louisville, travel

My Thoughts on Amendment 1

I really didn’t want to write on this subject, though have prayerfully considered it for quite a while.   Amendment One … More

Amendment One, law, marriage, NC

My Rock Stars

Was talking to my friend Liz last night about writers…..and my special love for them.  Having been a huge reader … More

Amelia Bedelia, authors, Eudora Welty, James Patterson, Lee Smith, Peggy Parish, Philip Yancey, R.C. Sproul, Taylor Stevens, Tom Perrotta

Some Rambling on Politics

I’m not someone who identifies with any political party.  I registered Republican – back when I was 18 and thought … More

elections, laws, politics, voting

Joy in the Mourning

When I was in my 20s, I was a member of two singles groups in Greensboro.  The first was at … More

death, Friendship, providence, provision, Psalm 30, wedding

It’s Not Just About The Vaginas…

Some friends of mine are putting on a great production of “The Vagina Monologues” this weekend, to raise money for … More

abuse, love, relationships, Vagina Monologues

Commercials That Changed My Life

My friend Allie had to spend part of her birthday cleaning gum off of her brand new car because some … More

commercials

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