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My Blog Anniversary….and He Is Risen, Indeed!

It’s been a year since I started writing this blog.  I began not knowing exactly where I was headed….or how…

blogging, challenges, changing, Easter, Ecclesiastes, first anniversary of blog, growing, rebirth

Perception And Truth – Not the Same Thing

“The world is not fair, and often fools, cowards, liars and the selfish hide in high places.”  Bryant H. McGill…

Perception, Proverbs 6, truth

Being Bound By the Bills

“Seven Deadly Sins –Wealth without workPleasure without conscienceScience without humanityKnowledge without characterPolitics without principleCommerce without moralityWorship without sacrifice.”  – Mahatma…

bouncing check, debt, paying what you owe

Love Month Revisited – Part 2 (Days 15-29)

Days 15-29 of my Love Month Facebook posts from 2012 (Remember it was Leap Year!)  Looking over these I realize…

church, February, freedom, giving, healers, love, Love month, Matthew 11:30, racism, religion, story teller, thank you, Trinity, undignified

Love Month Revisited – Part 1 (Days 1-14)

Last year my niece Sara started the month of February off by vowing to post something she loved every day…

love, Love month, things I love, Valentines

What’s That in the Mirror? Oh, My Own Advice Slapping Me in the Face!

Mirrors are really amazing things.  They reflect our image back to us.  Sometimes it is a surprise….like when you look…

advice, happy life, mirrors, passion

With Apologies to Jo

Let me first say that I am pretty sure that my friend Jo would absolutely hate me writing a blog…

alternative medicine, breast cancer, friend, Jo Murphy, pink

So Maybe I Don’t Have Children, But….

I happened to make a comment about parenting recently.  A woman in the room looked at me and said sarcastically…

childlessness, parenting, raising children

When They "Make" You Worry

I find lately that I am worrying more than usual lately.  Not about myself, but about other people.  It’s difficult…

Jeremiah 17:9, making mistakes, suspecting trouble, worry

A New Year of Auld Lange Syne

Should auld acquaintance be forgot,And never brought to mind?Should auld acquaintance be forgot,And auld lang syne? Chorus For auld lang…

auld lange syne, change, new year, New Year's resolutions

The Longest Birthday Party

I was my normal slack self this year when sending out Christmas cards.  I had the cards (actually a huge…

all year long, celebration, Christmas, Christmas cards

Stopping the People Hunters

I don’t like guns.  I didn’t grow up around them, I am not comfortable with them, and in my personal…

guns, mental illness, shooting

Finding My Oasis

Life has been a bit crazy as of late.  I’d even go as far as to say there has been…

busy, exhaustion, extrovert, introvert, rest

Not the Ideal

“Scratch any cynic and you will find a disappointed idealist.”  – George Carlin   “The idealist withdrew himself, because he…

cynics, disappointment, idealism, idealist, optimists, pessimists

An Adventure in Leon

Most of my time in Mexico has been to cruise destinations like Costa Maya and Cozumel.  Which I certainly enjoyed,…

balloon, cluster ballooning, festival, FIG, hot air balloons, Leon, Mexico, people, travel

Family Reunion

“Honor your father and your mother, as the LORD your God has commanded you, so that you may live long…

bonds, family, family reunion, history, honor, McKinney, reminiscing, respect

Do You Really Know?

I’ve often watched this election with the humor of watching a very strange ping pong match where I was cheering…

coping, election, God, knowing people

You’ve Got to Give A Little

My sister Deryn was telling me about a little 11-year old girl she saw on Good Morning America this morning…

charities, giving, volunteering

More Than Mud

  “I think I can. I think I can. I think I can.”  “I thought I could.  I thought I…

impossible, Little Engine that Could, positive thinking, possible, trying

A Most Lovely Love Story

“For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully…

caregiver, death, Life

Going At It Alone

In the world of singledom, you are often at the mercy of your friends and family.  Unless you are dating…

being alone, single, social events, socially incompatible

Remembering What But Not When

“Those who don’t know history are destined to repeat it.” – Edmund Burke “History is an account, mostly false, of…

Dr. James Leutze, Frank Harris, history, Joe Holpp, memoir, Pat Gainey, remembering dates

What I Learned In Kayaking Class

So I read the description and it was for a Beginning Kayaking class….and it specified flatwater kayaking.  I thought that…

beginning, CPCC, culture, fear of water, international, kayaking, Latta Plantation, overcoming fears

Running from Reality

“Humankind cannot bear very much reality.”  T.S. Eliot  ———————————————————– There are just days when I want to run away from…

9/11, fear, pain, recycling pain, repurposing pain, running from reality, September 11

One of Those Conversations

Well it started out pleasantly, then at some point it turned.  I am not sure when.  I didn’t see it…

poor communication, reconciliation, words

Loving Through Year and Far

“Prayer is weakness leaning on omnipotence.”  W. S. Bowd “Prayer does not change the purpose of God.  But prayer does…

I Corinthians 3:7, intercession, lives changed, prayer, youth, youth ministry

Memoirs from the Early Days at UNC

My niece Maggie is starting college at my alma mater, UNC-CH, this week.  She moved into her dorm on Saturday…

alumni, Chapel Hill, freshman, going to college, UNC

When Maybe is the Wrong Answer

“Simply let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.”  Matthew 5:37…

lack of commitment, Matthew 5: 37, maybe, weak words, wimpy words

Trumping Fear

“Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgement that something is more important than fear.”   Ambrose…

acrophobia, fear, fear of heights, going beyond your own expectations

Living in the Land of Self Pity

Yesterday was one of those days that just wearies my soul.  By the end of my work day, I just…

bad days, gaining weight, stress, work

Behind the Charm and the Beauty

Day 31 in Proverbs Proverbs 31:8-9 “But you must defend those who are helpless and have no hope.  Be fair…

beauty, charm, marriage, men, Proverbs 31, relationships, respect, women

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