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The Legacy of Holding Hands

My parents were hand holders. It always made me smile when I saw it. It was one of the first … More

Dad, death, Loss of a loved one, love

The Grouchy One

Thanksgiving 2015 On this Thanksgiving my dad has been in the ICU at Baptist Hospital for 16 days. Our life … More

grouchy, Holiday in the ICU, thanksgiving

The Best of Times, The Worst of Times

So while most people see tomorrow as Election Day, in the McKinney family it is Dad’s third surgery day in … More

choosing joy, choosing peace, illness, politics

Defying Gravity

This is one of those years that seems to bring one tough situation after another to deal with. I joked … More

Gravity, pity party, Sadness, tough times

Laying on the Loyal

“What is a disloyal act? A person is disloyal if he treats you as a stranger when, in fact, he … More

Friendship, loyal friends, loyalty

Really Not That Funny

So I was Facebooking and added a comment to something a friend had posted, when I suddenly stopped myself that … More

Humor

If You Were To Go Missing

It was one of those silly Facebook quizzes. “WHAT WOULD YOUR FRIENDS DO IF YOU WERE TO GO MISSING?” My … More

Helpless

The Silent Treatment

Someone is giving me the silent treatment. It came out of the blue. They were someone I considered. a good … More

Silent treatment

My Profiling

I don’t really understand racism on a certain level. I never have. I hope I never do. I love our … More

profiling, racism

The Helpers

I keep hearing people refer to that Mr. Rogers quote lately. You’ve probably heard it, too. “My mother would say … More

encouragement, friends, Helpers

These Sad Times

Is anyone else almost overwhelmed with the sad lately? Do you feel like saying “Wait a minute, God, I need … More

death, God, hope, Orlando, Sadness

Heading Home

While we loved our time in Japan, Maggie and I agreed that we were not upset about going home. When … More

coming home, Tokyo, travel, Vancouver

The Apathetic Search for Mount Fuji

The day didn’t begin well. At some really crazy early time my phone’s alarm went off. It plays a song … More

Saturday With Sachi

We began our Saturday eating these incredible chocolate cream filled doughnuts that Yuka sent home with us on Friday night. Oh … More

Meji Shrine, okonomiyaki, Rainbow Bridge, Tokyo, Trick Art Museum

Friday With Tosh….And Yuka and Yasu

We’ve got an issue with our hotel room, Remember real estate in Tokyo is expensive, so budget hotel rooms are … More

Japan, Rainbow Bridge, sumo, Tokyo

The Road Back to Tokyo

Our time in Kyoto just wasn’t long enough! We hated to say goodbye to the beautiful Hotel Nikko Princess, whose … More

Hotel Grand Fresa Akasaka, Hotel Nikko Princess, Kyoto, Tokyo

Kim’s Choice – A Day in Hiroshima

Yesterday was my personal indulgence….the one “must do” for me on this trip to Japan. It was a visit to … More

adventure, Hiroshima, travel

A Rainy Day in Kyoto

We hadn’t made strong plans for our Hiroshima trip, so when I could tell Maggie was enjoying sleeping in, I … More

dress like a geisha, geisha, Japan, Kyoto, maiko, tempura, travel

On to Kyoto

We….OK I…..had decided we needed to go to Kyoto for a few days to see a different side of Japanese … More

Japan Rail Pass, Kyoto, travel

Sunday With Yuka and Yasu

Sunday came. Jet lag has fully set set in. After 12 hours of sleep, I still felt like I needed … More

Shinjuku, shopping, Tokyo, travel

Time With Shino

Our first full day in Japan was amazing! We met up with Maggie’s best friend Shino from grade school. We … More

adventure, Japan, Tokyo, travel, Ueno Zoo

Making it to Tokyo

So we left Vancouver and had a bit over a 9-hour flight to Narita Airport in Tokyo. The flight was … More

adventure, Tokyo, travel

The Journey

People always ask how I get to travel to so many places and have so many adventures. Truly I don’t … More

adventure, budget travel, exploring the world, travel

The Perfect Wedding

My goddaughter Shannon got married May 22nd, in a beautiful and sweet ceremony in Lafayette, Indiana. She was gorgeous, he … More

family, goddaughter, perfect wedding, wedding

On Loving “Them” – The Gross, the Unloving, and the Socially Unacceptable

I had someone question me recently about someone in my life. Someone I love. This person had issues with some … More

agape, love, love as a verb, love in action, loving the unlovely

One Week

It’s been one week. One week since my dear great nephew left this earth. I still feel like I am … More

aftermath, Loss of a loved one, love, pain

More Than A Pretty Face

I used to work with a guy named Tony who was of Chinese descent. He looked it. But he was … More

first impressions, judgment

Sunshine Amidst the Fog

So I got a verbal HIPPA release from my dad and so I can publicly say this week he had … More

aortic valve replacement, Dr. Edward Kincaid, family, Surgery, thankful, Wake Forest Baptist Health

My Pleasure

So I was driving home after working in Raleigh for the day. I had attended  a late morning meeting and … More

chief end of man, hedonism, Pleasure, purpose, religion, servings, Westminster Catechism

That Bathroom Law

Photo courtesy of Sara Johnson The NC “bathroom law” has certainly put our state in the national news. The whole … More

Bathroom law, HB2, House Bill 2, NC, NC Public Facilities Privacy and Security Act, transgender

On Four Years of Blogging

March 31, 2012. Four years ago. It was the date I wrote my very first blog. I had no real … More

anniversary, blogging

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